By the time it was finally my turn to introduce myself, it was already 14.30 o‘clock. Our introduction to the Masai community on the south side of the Ngong Hills, about 35 km away from my Oseki farm, was supposed to last only 2 hours. But by the time us five guests, Simiyu, Felistas, Veronicah, Tonny and I, each of us had planted the trees we had brought with us in the Community Garden and then introduced ourselves to all 18 “leaders” of two CBOs – Community Based Organisations – in a community room not far from there, 4 hours had already passed.
Impressed and exhausted at the same time, I wanted to keep it short, but as soon as I started, I could not stop. I told them about my 30 years of encounter with Africa, my origins and what makes our cultures and societies different, where I believe our great opportunity and challenge lie. The words flowed in pictures and stories, accompanied by vivid facial expressions and gestures, the likes of which I had never seen in my best teaching days. My listeners literally sucked my deepest insights and most personal experiences out of me with their alert eyes, their laughter, amazement, clapping, their incredible “presence”. I sat down again, amazed and at the same time very satisfied with myself, and knew: Now we have met, now we are friends! This could be the beginning of something “big”. Not only because I let myself be carried away to open my heart wide, but above all because the previous speakers left such a strong impression.
Twelve years ago, three of them, Director Emanuel Millip Munkura, Secretary Geoffrey Tajeu Nkoitiko and Chairman Wilson Kamalyet Paramali, began to create the first CBO as a self-help group with the aim to meet their social and economic challenges better. For example, to ensure the schooling of children and the care of their widows, to prevent the circumcision of girls, and in general to stand up for the rights of women in their community. They know that as a cultural minority in a globalized world they have to change their habits, rethink some of their “taboos”. “We have to kill our taboo not to touch the soil”, explained the director and “we need to change our customs that women do not inherit.